More than once I've listened to friends and acquaintances scold me about how evil technology is and how it's destroying our social culture. I was glad the see the New York Times take up the theme today. After acknowledging the argument, they take it straight on.
THEN again, this is not the first time that the appearance of home media has caused an outcry — perhaps needlessly, in hindsight.
“If you go back 200 years, there were similar complaints about technological devices, but it was books at that time,” Dr. Koepnick said. “The family room filled with different people reading books created a lot of concerns and anxiety, particularly regarding women, because all of a sudden they were on their own, their minds were drifting into areas that could no longer be controlled.”
Likewise, the emergence of television led to decades of hand-wringing over the specter of American families transformed into sitcom-addicted zombies. Dr. Koepnick also points out that those evenings of family television usually involved a struggle over the channel knob, or later, the remote.
I have to admit I've spent a few too many evenings watching the people I'm with pore over their phones or laptops and leave me craving engagement. But maybe the long term effect isn't so bad.
Even before iPads, there was evidence that Web-centric home life might not, in fact, be eating away at family unity. Barry Wellman, a professor of sociology at the University of Toronto who studies the effect of technology on social communities, said that his research supports the findings of studies like a 2009 survey of 4,000 people by a Canadian market research company indicating that people believe technology is bringing the family together, not pulling it apart, by a substantial margin.
Wish we could lay this battle aside and just get on with our lives